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11 Jan 2017

Male Lecturers And Female Students ; The Sexual Manipulations And Escape Routes – Joy Oyeyemi

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TOPIC – Male Lecturers And Female Students ; The Sexual Manipulations And Escape Routes

SUBMITTED BY – Joy Oyeyemi


Can female students seek help from their male lecturers without any ulterior motive from both parties?

Were the female students forced into a sexual relationship with their male lecturers?

Who is at the receiving end or loosing end?

Sex is an ultimately tool, it can be used for procreation, transformation and as a weapon of control and manipulation. As a tool of control and manipulation, sexual favours are suggested or given only as an enticement to get an individual to give what the other desires.

According to Geraldyn Ezeakile, “the mass abuse of female university students in Nigeria is fuelled by the lack of a consistent and clear policy by university governing bodies and school authorities concerning sexual abuse, sexual harassment and rape of female students.” Lecturers abuse their authority without any apparent risk to either their career or status and institutions felt so little sense of responsibility towards students. Had it been there is a constitution that spell out the consequences of any lecturers caught in the act, the rate of sexual abuse by male lecturers to female students would be reduced in the universities. The thought is that in an educational setting of university, it consists of mature people who is able to discern their needs and find their ways in getting them. so, no one cares about the other person wellbeing, not even the school management, they believe that students are matured enough to care for themselves.   More so, the misuse and abuse of power by the male lecturers happens in universities, because lecturers are in charge of students’ script, they make the decision in some cases either to fail or pass a student. In a situation, where a male lecturer who is presiding over a course wants to have a secret affair with a female student, he can fail the girl purposely because of that. I remember a case when a lecturer failed a female student because she refused his sexual advance and when she confronts him, he said that she will not pass the course until he sleeps with her and no one dare to challenge is authority because he is the dean of the faculty also the course coordinator. Male lecturers manipulate their ways to sleep with their female students because they have the ability to affect students’ scores, some attempt to use that power for their personal advantage.

Had it been there is a constitution that spell out the consequences of any lecturers caught in the act, the rate of sexual abuse by male lecturers to female students would be reduced in the universities. The thought is that in an educational setting of university, it consists of mature people who is able to discern their needs and find their ways in getting them. so, no one cares about the other person wellbeing, not even the school management, they believe that students are matured enough to care for themselves.   More so, the misuse and abuse of power by the male lecturers happens in universities, because lecturers are in charge of students’ script, they make the decision in some cases either to fail or pass a student. In a situation, where a male lecturer who is presiding over a course wants to have a secret affair with a female student, he can fail the girl purposely because of that. I remember a case when a lecturer failed a female student because she refused his sexual advance and when she confronts him, he said that she will not pass the course until he sleeps with her and no one dare to challenge is authority because he is the dean of the faculty also the course coordinator. Male lecturers manipulate their ways to sleep with their female students because they have the ability to affect students’ scores, some attempt to use that power for their personal advantage.

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I remember a case when a lecturer failed a female student because she refused his sexual advance and when she confronts him, he said that she will not pass the course until he sleeps with her and no one dare to challenge is authority because he is the dean of the faculty also the course coordinator. Male lecturers manipulate their ways to sleep with their female students because they have the ability to affect students’ scores, some attempt to use that power for their personal advantage.

More so, the misuse and abuse of power by the male lecturers happens in universities, because lecturers are in charge of students’ script, they make the decision in some cases either to fail or pass a student. In a situation, where a male lecturer who is presiding over a course wants to have a secret affair with a female student, he can fail the girl purposely because of that. I remember a case when a lecturer failed a female student because she refused his sexual advance and when she confronts him, he said that she will not pass the course until he sleeps with her and no one dare to challenge is authority because he is the dean of the faculty also the course coordinator. Male lecturers manipulate their ways to sleep with their female students because they have the ability to affect students’ scores, some attempt to use that power for their personal advantage.

I remember a case when a lecturer failed a female student because she refused his sexual advance and when she confronts him, he said that she will not pass the course until he sleeps with her and no one dare to challenge is authority because he is the dean of the faculty also the course coordinator. Male lecturers manipulate their ways to sleep with their female students because they have the ability to affect students’ scores, some attempt to use that power for their personal advantage.

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Also, Male lecturers use verbal adeptness to manipulate intended victims. They choose targets carefully, sure of their ability to control events and manipulate those individuals to get their desire, they may begin their pursuit with only personal comments about their attire or appearance or they begin with sexual jokes or comments used to gauge the other person’s reactions.

However, some female students believe that sex is the only means for them to get lecturers to upgrade their scores, using the adage that goes thus “use what you have to get what you want” They think the only way for them to be exempted from failure is to use their body.so, it is not only male lecturers that approach female students for sex, female students also do that to get high marks and sometimes for money.

Female students are strongly advised to create an immediate distance between their selves and the manipulative male lecturers, they should not participate in sexual or crude jokes, discourage personal, revelatory conversations with members of the opposite sex and they are to object immediately if a male lecturer touches them in an inappropriate way.

Female students should know that no amount of money, high scores and no promise of reward is worth trading in their self-esteem or dignity and school authority should consider sexual exploitation as a problem that needs to be addressed.

 

 

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